I've often been uncomfortable with the way we interview people to discover if they are believers. My concern goes back many years. It probably began decades ago as I was sitting with my young children as they were being interviewed by elders for the Lord's Table. But it includes my participation in countless membership interviews conducted by church sessions and school boards. So the problems I see are not endemic to interviewing children, but include the process of ascertaining the status of adults as well.
Part of the problem is that we easily settle for questions and answers that use simplistic slogans. If we hear the interviewed adults or children say the right words, we accept their "testimony" without much more inquiry. There are any number of evangelical code words and phrases that we learn so that we can communicate to one another that we are part of the same tribe. Which phrases and terms we use depends on the branch of the church with which we are associated. Some of the more common ones are:
Asking Jesus into my heart
Praying to receive Jesus
Personal relationship with God and/or Jesus
I was saved when. . .
I got saved. . .
My personal Lord and Savior
There are more, of course. But you get the idea. It's not so much that these phrases are wrong or dangerous in themselves. They can indeed helpfully summarize a Christian's experience and present commitment. My problem is not that people use these catch words to give testimony to their faith. My problem is that when these words are phrases are
absent many interviewers are very likely to question the authenticity of that person's faith. What often happens in interviews is that we fish for these terms and phrases, asking question after question hoping to hear something familiar. Once we hear our favorite expression we breath a sigh of relieve and move on. Here is a real life example.